Writers Can Use a Helping Hand

 

Have you ever tried to help a toddler who stamps his foot and says "I do it myself."? He wants to be independent, and that's a blessing for his parents. What about writers who do the same? Shunning a helping hand with the attitude "I'll do this myself."? 

There are times when we can also use a bit of assistance. I've lost count of the number of times I've gone to another writer or writing group for a bit of help. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Sure, we all like to be independent, but there are times when even a tiny amount of help can send us straight into publication.

I've noted many a time when someone critiquing a submission in my writing group makes one small suggestion that can change a great deal, can make a good piece an excellent one. People who join writing critique groups are not afraid of asking for a helping hand. They're in the group to both receive and give assistance. 

What other helping hands can a writer find? How about that one writer friend who is willing to listen to whatever barricade you're facing and give some objective advice? Maybe over a cup of coffee or a glass of wine in casual conversation. It need not be a formal 'ask for help' situation. 

Another helping hand is one a writer can use all alone. That's reading a reference book on our craft. New ones come out all the time, and there are many old ones that have a lot of information, as well. When I started writing, I was aiming at writing for children, so I went to my local library and checked out every book I could find on that topic. I learned a lot and found that there was more to this kind of writing than I'd ever thought. 

One more helping hand for writers is that many writing workshops and conferences that are offered all over the country, or even in foreign countries. It would be fun to go to one in an exotic place, but there are others that are within driving distance for most of us. 

Joining your local and state writers' organizations will be one more helping hand for you. A way to increase and refine your writing skill, as well as mingle and converse with other writers.

You're not marooned on a desert island with no one to offer you a helping hand. You'll find them wherever you live. They might not come up and smack you awake. You're the one who must reach out and find them. 

In closing, I have one thought. Never, ever deny a helping hand. Reaching out and accepting them will be beneficial for you and your writing life.