Writers and Discouragement

 

We love to post our successes on social media. It allows us to share with others and perhaps give them a link to reading our newest publication, be it a book, short story, personal essay or any other kind of writing. Letting others know about our successes is part of building a writer's platform. 

But what about the rejections we get and the frustrations we often face as writers? Do we want to share those on social media? I don't, and you don't either. That part of our writing life we generally keep private. Who wants to blow their horn about the twenty rejections received on one story? 

We often get discouraged when a writing project doesn't go well. We saw it in our mind so clearly. Knew what we wanted to accomplish. Then, the actual writing doesn't go as well. What do we do? Our choices run from scratching the project altogether to spending a great deal of time revising and editing until the piece becomes what we'd envisioned in the first place. 

If we want to find some success in our writing life, we need to keep working until we are satisfied enough to be ready to submit to a publisher. 

Years ago, I made a lot of my daughter's clothes. Every pattern comes with step-by-step directions. Occasionally, something didn't go right, and I knew I couldn't continue to the next step until I figured it out. I'd become frustrated. What to do? I found that if I walked away for a day or two, then came back, the answer was there, and I could move on with the project. We can do the same when our writing isn't working out to our satisfaction. Walk away for at least a day, maybe longer. What seemed so complex earlier might suddenly look easier.

That old adage 'If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.' comes into play when we get discouraged in our writing life. One other way you can try again is to visit with a writing friend. There's no shame in asking for help. Another person can see the problem what the writer cannot. They are objective, while we, as writers, are often not. 

Our poster today tells us that it is often the last key that opens the lock. We have to keep trying until we find the key that makes our writing projects ready for submission.