Today's photo (silhouette) shows two women having coffee or tea and conversing. It makes me wonder what they are discussing. If they are writers, I'm quite certain that topic will be a good part of their conversation.
That's a positive. Some writers tend to be a bit reclusive. They prefer to stay at home and write. Writing is a solitary task. No doubt about that. When a writer gets involved in a project, they don't need anyone else around. They're totally immersed. But, when they have free time, it would be beneficial to seek the company of another writer.
Only another wrter understands the ups and downs of the writing world. Your best friend who is a nurse might be sympathetic when you tell her about your latest problem in the piece you're writing. If it's a writer friend, they will actually be able to empathize. They've been there, know the hurdles you're facng, really understand what you're talking about.
How do you find writer friends? One way is to attend writing conventions or conferences on a regular basis. The first time, you are in a sea of strangers, but by going year after year, you are bound to make some friends. Friends who live in he writing world just like you, Friends who understand your ups and downs.
Another way is to join a critique group. It can be an in-person one in your local area or online. I have been in both kinds. The people in the online group I belong to have become close friends. We critique one another's work, but there is also chit-chat, and Random Word exercises in which many write about their personal life. If I have a problem in something I am writing, I know I can go to any one of them for help or just to 'talk it out'.
If you have local writer friends, make a point of getting together now and then. If you don't, maybe it's time to look for some. One way is to join your state writers organization. Most of them will have districts or local chapters. Attend the meetings regularly. Foster friendships there. You seldom become instant friends with anyone. It takes some time to develop a friendship. And, you must work at it.
Having friends in your writing world will be of great benefit. Give it a try.
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